You've tried the planners.
You've tried the apps.
You've tried trying harder.
Executive function coaching works because we start with how your brain works.
Does this sound like your life?
I work with both adults and students, and the patterns are often the same.
FOR ADULTS
Exhausted from trying to keep it all together.
You don't have to keep white-knuckling your way through every week. There's a better way forward.
FOR STUDENTS & THEIR PARENTS
Frustrated because you know they can do it.
Coaching lets someone else be the accountability partner so you can go back to being the parent.
There's a name for this. And there's help for it.
They're called executive function skills and coaching helps build them.
It's not about trying harder, it's about trying differently.
Executive function coaching is
Executive function coaching is not
"When you understand how your brain works, everything else gets easier."
- Hannah Choi
The executive function coaching journey
WHERE YOU START
Feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, or just ... stuck.
"I know what I need to do. I just can't make myself do it."
THE WORK
Try things. See what sticks. Adjust.
"It's okay that my way looks different from everyone else's."
Detours happen, and that’s part of the journey.
Some weeks the system falls apart, motivation disappears, or life throws something at you. It might feel like failure, but it's not. It's information we can learn from. I'll be there the whole way, without judgment, with new ideas, and with the support that keeps you moving forward.
WHERE YOU END UP
You handle it yourself. That's the end goal.
"I didn't even think about it. I just ... did it."
Sound like something you want to explore?
Let’s start with a conversation and we can go from there.
What a session actually looks like
5-10 mins
Check-in
How did last week go? What worked, what didn't, what came up? This isn't small talk. It's data we use to decide where to focus today.
45-50 mins
Dig in together
It might be different every time. Maybe we're building a system for tracking assignments. Maybe we're unpacking why mornings are so hard. Maybe we're working toward a long-term goal. Practical, conversational, collaborative.
5-10 mins
Build the plan
One or two things to try this week. Not homework. Not a to-do list. Something specific enough to act on and small enough to actually do.
The practical details
All sessions are confidential. Your information is never shared without your permission.
SESSIONS
About 60 minutes
Some run shorter, some longer. Depends on the work.
FREQUENCY
Weekly to start
Then biweekly, monthly, and check-ins as needed.
FORMAT
Virtual & in-person
Zoom anywhere. Fairfield, CT area for in-person.
AGES
HS seniors to adults
I’m happy to refer other coaches for younger children.
INVESTMENT
Let’s hop on a call
We can go over pricing details when we’re on the call.
DIAGNOSIS
Not required
You don't need a diagnosis to benefit from coaching.
Common questions
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Tutoring teaches subjects. I teach how to learn. Planning, organization, time management, focus. The skills that make tutoring (and everything else) work.
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Therapy addresses emotional and psychological health. Executive function coaching builds practical skills and strategies. They complement each other well, and coaching pairs well with therapy. Many of my clients do both.
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No. Some of my clients have ADHD diagnoses, some don't, and some are still figuring that out. Coaching is about building skills, not labels. If executive function is getting in your way, that's enough reason to be here.
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High school seniors and college students. I don't currently work with younger kids. If your child is in middle school or earlier, I'm happy to point you to someone who's a better fit.
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Your kid and I meet one-on-one. Sessions are private, building that independence is part of the work. I'll loop you in on the big picture with periodic check-ins, and I'm always reachable between sessions if something comes up.
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It depends on the person. Sessions start weekly, then space out to biweekly, monthly, and eventually as-needed. There's no set number. The goal is for you to not need coaching anymore.
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That's okay. A free intro call lets you and them see what it's actually like. But coaching only works when the person shows up willingly. I won't force it, and neither should you.
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Not currently. I can provide receipts for sessions if you'd like to check with your insurance about out-of-network reimbursement for coaching services.
Therapists, counselors, and schools: I welcome referrals and I'm happy to coordinate care.
Who you’ll work with
I've spent over 20 years supporting students and adults with executive function challenges. I'm also a speaker, a podcast host of I Think I Can Be Happier with my friend and fellow executive function coach Amy McDuffie, and someone who genuinely thinks this work is fun.
Beyond BookSmart executive function trained. Master's in Education, Bachelor's in Psychology.
Continuing education in ADHD-specific support, Polyvagal Theory, and executive function support
Ready? Let’s start with a conversation
A 30-minute call where you tell me what's going on, I ask you questions, and we figure out if coaching makes sense.
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